"Who chose their fathers"
Wow, can you not give responsibility to men for anything at all? It's not just that they're shitty fathers, it's the women's faults for choosing them as fathers?
Anyway, I know plenty of good men. But you've got to admit that men are more likely to be violent and to make very stupid decisions just for the possibility of sex, so I'd really prefer not to have the liability of taking one for a life partner. That would be like starting a business with a crack addict. AS nice as they seem when they're sober, they're going to fuck things up when they're high. Testosterone is a hell of a drug.
(not all men, of course, but enough to be concerning)