Oh man, I started writing a novel in response but decided I may as well make some money off my wisdom - so I'm going to write a whole post on it.

In the meantime, I wrote this a while ago about being "nice," maybe you'll like it, who knows!

https://psiloveyou.xyz/why-the-nice-guy-never-gets-the-girl-1de9a7662772

And if you don't mind, I'll tag you in the piece i write in response to this (I can send you a link first if you want to give me feedback, and if you don't want me to tag you then I won't). Anyway, happy 2022! It's gonna be a good one! or it's going to be horrible, who can tell the future?