Oh, gee, thanks for explaining everything about everything!

(that's sarcasm)

sounds like you're just trying to pawn off all the blame on women, instead of asking questions like: Why are men willing to be pieces of shit in an attempt to attract women? What percentage of women actually are attracted to men like this? (hint: it's a lower ratio than you think) or Could there be another quality that goes hand in hand with brutality and strength, and could that be the thing that actually attracts women? (notice how many women are with men who are neither strong nor brutal)