I’m glad you and your partner are happy, and she sounds pretty great, what with the climbing and biking (I blame my wrinkles on the surfing, and I love every line resulting from every squint into the horizon that got me the next great wave).

Personally, I’m sexually attracted to men younger than me, and haven’t struggled to find sexual (and relationship) partners that are younger…yet ;) So I’d be unlikely to pursue anything with an older man.

I’m also unlikely to pursue anything with a man my age, even if he’s rich. I really prioritize freedom over money, and using someone else’s money is NEVER free.

But like you, I wish everyone happiness. I just don’t think I’ll find it by partnering with men who seem to equate youth with femininity.