I choose not to be in a traditional romantic partnership with a man, but I don’t sleep around much. I was raised very conservatively so sleeping around would be uncomfortable for me. I’ve only slept with one guy in 2021, for example, and only one from 2018–2020. I tend to find a partner and stick with him until it runs its course.

The most important thing to me is that I have and demonstrate concern for the well-being of my intimate partners (and that they do for me). I believe in strong communication and I’m very clear with them about what I am and am not looking for. (you can read more about that here, if you care to: https://psiloveyou.xyz/my-post-mormon-pre-sex-checklist-a448ab430deb)

As far as being a WGTOW — I guess so? But I’m not as bitter against men as they are against women, from what I’ve read on their forums. I think most men are great, I just find that I’m happier single. Again, I think this may be partially the result of dating an anti-feminist. It was really hard on me.