Don't you worry your pretty little head, Austin! Part of the reason I want a known donor, rather than going to a clinic, is so that the donor and child can have a relationship - my goal is to facilitate that relationship to the best of my ability.

My original donor wanted a sort of fun uncle relationship, taking the kid to explore the world in far off places once a year or so. That sounded awesome to me! But my latest donor wants more of a coparenting relationship - he wants to be there and spend more time with kiddo day to day, week to week. I'm stoked about that! We're great friends, and I can't think of a better person to coparent with.

Thanks for your concern!