Damn, you just gave voice to so many things I've recognized about life/love/relationships/men but haven't been able to put into words!

Like you, I choose to remain single. But I've been doing it a bit weakly, feeling insecure about bucking societal expectations. I love your attitude here, even if I'm not into cheating/helping someone else cheat (I just hate dishonesty in any form). But as far as taking your damn life back - 100% fully approve, and can learn from you here.